“Success is achieved and maintained by those who try and keep trying”-W. Clement Stone
I learn many things from The Amal Career Fellowship. As we talk about Amal totkay. I learn that firslty we should talk to ourself. Knowing ourself is most important thing. Knowing in which you are good at and how many things you are bad at. You should know your weakness and strengths. Sometimes it’s important to self talking. Through self talking we can know ourself better as well as we can change our thoughts of “ you can’t do anything” to “I can do this”.
“ The act of discovering who we are will force us to accept that we can do further than we think.” -Paul Coelho
The second thing which attracts me is to came out of your comfort zone. In every day life we should accept challenge. It make us unable to came out of our comfort zone. Where you have no other choice but upgrade your mindset.
The third one is a creating new habits. Adopted new habit is also a sign of living minds. Such minds finds everyday something new from their daily routines.
“And once you understand that habits can change, you have the freedom and the responsibility to remake them.” -Charles Duhigg
Fourth one is asking people for help. Sometimes we feel that asking for help could be devalue us but the reality is to ask for help is a sign of strength. Ask for help not because you are weak , but because you want to remain strong.
“Don’t afraid to ask questions. Don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it. I do that every day. Asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a sign of strength. It shows you have the courage to admit when you don’t know something, and to learn something new.” -Barack Obama
Fifth and the last one is Fake it till you make it. It’s mean that if you are in mind growth process ,and not much confident . Then you have to start acting as you always want to be confident. Research said that if you start act as a confident person, this will eventually improved your confidence level.
“Don’t fake it till you make it. Fake it till you become it” -Amy Cuddy
I found all these amal totkay are really amazing. They have to start applying those rules then they capable of understanding that what could they do by came out from their comfort zone. Through this the could be able to create new habits which are going to be helpful in their future. As they have growth mindset , they could upgrade themselves as will demanded.They feel free to discuss problems as well as accept other’s opinion.